It is a strange paradox, it does have its risks though :)

How secure is that and does it really represent security to own our home and pay a mortgage.

I see security comes from the ability to adapt to situations, and in many ways, having a house (even paid for) can limit movement.

The funny thing is we know this to be true. But we ignore it and go with the crowd. Because that’s comfortable

And, we feel it is better to fail as a group as it protects our ego as we were all wrong.