I think incrementalism is the way to go, but as we both know, that seems to be falling on deaf ears at the moment. The truth is that life is a gamble, and yes we are taking a big leap hoping to land on our feet. I don't know what's going to happen, I do hope for the best, but "real life" happens offline, and I don't intend to let the drama of these conversations rob me from enjoying time with the wife, a good meal and my family.

We agree more than you think :)