Men in the affair, most only picture "this thing", very realistic

In an affair, the biggest difference between men and women is: men first sex before love, and women are first love before sex.

Whether a man will stay with you or not does not depend on how much he loves you, but on whether his physical needs are satisfied.

This is a very realistic thing, but a lot of women don't understand, also foolishly think that found true love.

Some women fall into an affair, always think that the man will love her forever, responsible for her, this idea is naive.

For men, the immediate purpose of being with you is to get you.

After all, physiology, in the eyes of men, is the most simple and easy, but also maintain the bond of love, as long as you are fresh, will come to you.

However, once a man is no longer interested, he will try to leave, can not have a trace of nostalgia, act very unsentimental.

So, men in the affair, most only picture "this thing", is "sex", very realistic.

1. Men flirt with women outside marriage just for "physiology"
   Watanabe said, "From the moment a man has a crush on a woman, he expects to have a physical relationship with her, and he can't stop thinking about it."

Indeed, men outside the marriage, see the heart of the woman, the heart is nothing more than to be with her together, even imagine a lot of "touching" scene.

It can be seen that when men lift women, the heart is not simple, but very dirty, once they enter the affair, just want to get a woman.

Emotional desire, for a man is the most direct thing, has nothing to do with love.

Therefore, women do not believe the man's sweet words, his love words again beautiful, also just put you as a "playmate", rather than really love you.

Xiaoyu, a colleague, met a male colleague at work. He had been married for eight years, but he was having an affair outside the marriage.

At first, he just talked to her and often invited her out to dinner. They soon became friends with each other.

In this way, Xiao Yu gradually relaxed her guard against him. After dating for a month, he asked her to go on a trip, during which they had intimate relations.

After that, the man to her gradually cold, not as warm as before, and even take the initiative to alienate and cold her.

At this time, Xiao Yu was deeply invested in her love and took the man as her true love. However, the man only came to her when he needed her and never saw her at all when he was tired of her.

Finally, Xiao Yu saw through his mind. He had never loved her and had to break up with him.

Therefore, men in the affair, will not pay sincerely, they figure only emotional needs, and the satisfaction of the inner desire.

Two, physical love, is the purpose of men looking for you
Men are very rational, they will not rashly give up marriage, even if the marriage is not good, it is impossible to lose a lifetime of happiness for women outside.

Therefore, they flirt with women outside of marriage, just to get the woman, but not really passionate, that is what men seek you.

Frankly speaking, a man will not love people, but leave the lover, is nothing but to fill the emotional deficit, marriage can not give, in you can get, he is willing to continue to contact.

Moreover, for men, they are more realistic and transparent, and don't get entangled in extramarital relationships.

Because, in their hearts very clear, the wife and children are their own, but the lover, once out of bed, really don't know who she belongs to.

Therefore, a man will never stay with his lover for the sake of being with him all the time, except for physical love.

Therefore, a woman in the affair, or to wake up as soon as possible, do not pay blindly.

You spend yourself for a man who doesn't love you, but he only takes you as emotional comfort and play with you. What's the point of your efforts?

In reality, many women struggle with extramarital affairs and live a miserable life. There really is no need.

The only way to get rid of pain is to stay away from extramarital affairs, stay away from married men who flirt with you, stick to your principles and bottom line, and not be hurt.

In any affair, what men are looking for is "physical need". They are looking for excitement and have no intention of loving you.

Therefore, women understand the man's mind, don't be stupid, refuse to have an affair, in order to avoid being disappointed and hurt by the man.

In conclusion, extramarital affairs, not true love, women must not cling to.

When you meet a married man to hit on you, you should understand that he is not really in love with you, but to get emotional satisfaction from you, seeking a fresh and exciting.

A man does not want your money, also do not want your love, he only want the same: "sex", this is the reality of extramarital affairs.

Therefore, advise women, do not touch extramarital affairs, this kind of feelings brought by the consequences, you really can't afford.

Women in this life, love is not necessarily happy, but love is wrong must not be happy, but will suffer great pain, wake up as soon as possible.