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RE: Time for a break...
The lack of tact has come from the endless lies and accusations of me being incompetent, and lying, and fudding. Guess what, I was right. https://steemit.com/steem/@furion/updates-on-steem-python-steemdata-and-the-node-situation go read it for yourself.
I actually resteemed that article lol.
While I don't deny that those kinds of pressures have made me lose my cool more than once, that's actually not true.
Nothing, and nobody, can make me do anything. I lost my cool, regardless of what anyone else did. I alone am responsible for my acts and words, as I alone have authority to execute them.
I do not condemn you for anything. I am not your judge, nor your teacher. But I must consider the issues you discuss in the words you use to discuss them, and, believe it or not, it is easier to fault those that have wronged you if you simply state relevant facts, and leave the judgement to the readers.
Ad hominem attacks are something I do not find compelling when applied to me, in fact they strengthen my resolve. I therefore do not find them useful in disputes, because I reckon they do the same to others.
They also clutter technical discussion, which for me is a challenge to wrap my head around.
So, I am not condemning you in any way, but would probably have a better understanding of the particular issues you have raised were there less name-calling and wrathful language.
Totally valid points... The pareto principle is very important when it comes to anger. There is very many good reasons to be angry, but at some point, it's all problem, and it should be 20% problem 80% solution...