I am very curious to see how @stellabelle responds to this. Your points are well argued and as a guy I can attest to the fact that women have an irrational power over me. From stellabelle's past posts it is clear that she used her 'power' to earn money, fame, and bed men. Despite her past, she has expressed many times how she felt used, abused, and mistreated by the men.

We live in a culture where governments turn our own power against us. Any women who doesn't own her own power will find her power subjugated to a man. Some men intentional insult and demean women to lower their self esteem which in turn causes the woman to give up her power.

Moral of the story, love and value yourself above all.

The question with respect to porn rests entirely on how and why it is used. Like a gun, it can be used for fun or harm.

Speaking in evolutionary terms, a man who can get many woman to submit to him is more fit than a man who respects women. This is why jerks often get the beautiful women. Good guys who value women do not resort to tactics that are proven to work.