Slow morning I guess :)

the accounts that have bought, powered-up, engaged and worked consistently over the bear market are the ones who also have a network that they are now benefiting from financially. Is this wrong?

You did answer but I'll just add a 'hell no' to that. As long as their content still appeals, those who stayed non-nuclear and still worked hard deserve a change in fortunes.

... those who are self-absorbed and consistently maximizing their own needs over that of others in the relationship will eventually find themselves alone and without access to the resources that support health and happiness.

To a point, but some who took this route can now get by quite happily without access to the resources of others.