WHY WORRY ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE'S VALIDATION?

in #stach7 years ago (edited)

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"If you put your validation in other people's hand,you will always have to go back to them for it"

Your opinion of yourself should be the only thing that should make or break your day. Do you end up having a bad day because no one told you,you are looking good or I like you or I listened to you on radio and you were so good?

Why do we care so much about other people's opinion anyway? Why do we try to fit in? I think it's normal to be self-conscious,but letting other people's validation define you or dictate what you can and can't do is not right! The sad truth is that some people will never like you no matter how hard you try.
People who depend on other people's validation end up becoming people pleasers and find it difficult to build healthy friendships...

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Selfworth is about believing in you,loving yourself for who you are,being happy without external validation. Selfworth is about putting your validation in your own hands.
Stop trying to fit in, stand out and the right people will genuinely appreciate you for who your are!
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