I can't wait for you to visit other parts of the world, to expand your horizon. The truth is there are men and there are men, same applies to women and i can tell you for a fact. Nothing to do with appearance for real men or women. The substance matters and many other facets. There is so much more that makes up a human, though in PH, these other things are not pronounced as may the case in other places. I get you fully. But i stay speechless on these matters, except perhaps in the DMs. Stay strong. Know that the world out there exists and that should start to be a standard of measure, cos countries in reality are just locations. Stay awesome. Keep growing in your depth and substance and people will no longer be able to circumvent you when you walk into the room because your presence will fill it