You said it best when you wrote that these things that we experience is just another part of the human experience, another experience we have of ourselves. This is how I feel whenever I share one of my experiences and someone tells me that I am (some praise based adjective); or empathize with me with what that suffering must have felt. Truth is, it is just a pip in my life, a pip amongst other pips of similar nature. What is felt like others is just normal for me. Just another human experience that I can share and that in a way had to happen as orchestrated by the Universe so that I could handle the next experience, or know some 0.000003% more of myself, and be ready for the next experience. I am not any of those adjectives, nor do I even feel any more special than anybody else.