Your Children Are On Their Own Soul Searching Journey

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Learning is the beginning of wealth. Learning is the beginning of health. Learning is the beginning of spirituality. Searching and learning is where the miracle process all begins. Jim Rohn

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Spirituality is not a formula; it is not a test. It is a relationship. Spirituality is not about competency; it is about intimacy. Spirituality is not about perfection; it is about connection. The way of the spiritual life begins where we are now in the mess of our lives. Mike Yaconelli

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In a telephone session with Akpan, one of my customers, he communicated to me that he was feeling extremely pitiful about his child, Luc. Luc, 29 years of age, was not doing much with his life, and Gerald was castigating himself for how he had parented Luc.

"I ought to have invested more energy with him. I ought to have persuaded him more. I ought to have been a superior good example. I ought to have been all the more firm with him." Endlessly he went, judging himself for how he had been as a parent.

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Femininity is not just lipstick, stylish hairdo,s, and trendy clothes. It is the divine adornment of humanity. It finds expression in your qualities of your capacity to love, your spirituality, delicacy, radiance, sensitivity, creativity, charm, graciousness, gentleness, dignity, and quiet strength. James E. Faust

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To say the word Romanticism is to say modern art - that is, intimacy, spirituality, colour, aspiration towards the infinite, expressed by every means available to the arts. Charles Baudelaire

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"Gerald," I stated, "Luc is individually soul's excursion. Regardless of whether you had been an impeccable parent – and none of us truly comprehends what that implies – Luc may even now be having the difficulties he is having."

"Truly? Goodness! That improves me feel much! I never thought of it that way. Disclose to me more about what you mean by his own particular soul's excursion."

"I imply that every one of us comes here to take in certain spiritual lessons. Notwithstanding how great or awful your child rearing was, Luc, is without anyone else travels, settling on his own decisions. You can assume liability for how you were as a parent, yet you can't assume liability for the decisions he is making for his life."

"However, I continue feeling that on the off chance that I had been a superior parent, he would not battle the way he is."

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Enlightened leadership is spiritual if we understand spirituality not as some kind of religious dogma or ideology but as the domain of awareness where we experience values like truth, goodness, beauty, love and compassion, and also intuition, creativity, insight and focused attention. Deepak Chopra

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Spirituality does two things for you. One, you are forced to become more selfless, two, you trust to Providence. The opposite of a spiritual man is a materialist. If I was a materialist I would be making lots of money doing endorsements, doing cricket commentary. I have no interest in that. Imran Khan

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"Perhaps and possibly not. You have no chance to get off knowing this. Your self-judgment is your endeavour to have control over something you have no power over – Luc's decisions. You are attempting to keep away from your sentiments of powerlessness with respect to Luc. However, you are vulnerable to him. You can't influence him to appear as something else.

"Every tyke is extraordinary and every kid will react distinctively to our child rearing. We do as well as can be expected for our youngsters. Most guardians need the absolute best for their kids and feel profound torment when their youngsters experience torment. However, we can't keep them from their own particular soul's adventure."

"So what would I be able to do to help him?"

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We should honour Mother Earth with gratitude; otherwise our spirituality may become hypocritical. Radhanath Swami

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When spirituality is the basis of your life, it gives you the strength, wisdom and courage to surmount the many storms of life that could destroy a weaker person who doesn't have this foundation. Radhanath Swami

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"The absolute best thing you can do is to keep doing your own particular internal work while appealing to God for him. Despite the fact that he is 29, you are as yet a good example for him. Unquestionably judging yourself isn't great part displaying. Luc needs to see you doing whatever you can to take cherishing consideration of yourself. When he sees you feeling okay about yourself and content with your life, he may choose to roll out a few improvements. Besides turning into a cherishing good example and appealing to God for him, there is truly nothing you can do about his decisions. You have to acknowledge your vulnerability over him as opposed to attempting to have control over him. Any endeavours to control him will probably bring about protection."

"Truly, he is by all accounts exceptionally impervious to anything I say. This is a piece of my disappointment and misery."

"Right. That is the reason you have to relinquish attempting to control him. You have to relinquish being put resources into the result with respect to his decisions and simply keep without anyone else travel. The more you let go of him, the better possibility you have of him settling on cherishing decisions for himself, particularly when he sees you settling on adoring decisions for yourself."

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Zen does not confuse spirituality with thinking about God while one is peeling potatoes. Zen spirituality is just to peel the potatoes. Alan Watts

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Spirituality is meant to take us beyond our tribal identity into a domain of awareness that is more universal. Deepak Chopra

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Most guardians need to imagine that they have more control over their youngsters than they do. We need to surmise that on the off chance that we "do it right" we can control the result we need for our youngsters. It will make it significantly less demanding to relinquish endeavoring to control our kids and simply be the absolute best guardians we can, when we comprehend and acknowledge that they are without anyone else soul's voyage.

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The Church is not an automobile showroom - a place to put ourselves on display so that others can admire our spirituality, capacity, or prosperity. It is more like a service center, where vehicles in need of repair come for maintenance and rehabilitation. Dieter F. Uchtdorf
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I feel that a lot of human spirituality stems from the belief that we are unique and special in the universe, but maybe we are just what happens when there is proper temperature and proper distance from the right type of star. Alex Honnold

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