WHO NEEDS FORGIVENESS

in #spirituality6 years ago (edited)

Regardless of whether it's a life partner who was unfaithful, a parent who let you down as a child, or a companion who shared something told in confidence, after you were wronged and the underlying wave of hurting emotion has passed, the next big task is.. How do you forgive the individual?

Can I forgive someone who threatened to harm me but still call the police for him?

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Have you asked similar question before? Well, to figure out how to forgive, you should first realize what forgiveness isn't. Many people misinterpret forgiveness. Here are a few things that Forgiveness doesn't mean:

• Forgiveness doesn't mean you are exculpating or pardoning the other individual's activities.

• Forgiveness doesn't mean you have to tell the individual that he or she is forgiven.

• Forgiveness doesn't mean you shouldn't have any more emotions about the circumstance.

• Forgiveness doesn't mean there is nothing further to work out in the relationship or that all is well at this point.

• Forgiveness doesn't mean you ought to overlook the episode that at any point happened.

• Forgiveness doesn't mean you need to keep on including the individual in your life.

What's more, forgiveness isn't something you do for the other individual.

Forgiveness changes your rage and hurt into healing and peace. Forgiveness enable you to conquer sentiments of wretchedness, tension, and wrath, to be at peace with yourself.

Thus, forgiveness is something you do for yourself, to help yourself let go of the past and move on. Is there someone you need to forgive today so you can move on? You can do it now!

If you forgive others the wrongs they have done to you, your Father in heaven will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive the wrongs you have done.
(Matthew 6:14-15)

When we forgive one another, we make it easier for us to obtain forgiveness from when we pray. It may be hard to forgive but the grace of God gives the enablement when you desire to.

Stay Blessed!

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Amen. Forgiveness is done for our own well-being. If we forgive, our father will forgive us. Forgiveness always produces peace and relief. Thank for sharing

Thank you for your input.

When we forgive those who wrong us, we find inner peace and gain forgiveness from God when we pray.

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