Those are some very good views you have shared with us. I also pondered what happens after death many times in the past. However I have found no solid answer. I also appreciate the fact that you related reality to death. What I do know is I should be more focused on solving life. The best explanation I have found about what reality is "People live their lives based on what they accept as correct and true, that's how they define reality" -Itachi Uchiha (Naruto). That quote comes from an anime would you believe. I know of a tribe who only see 5 colours in the rainbow; reason being they only have names for 5 of the colours. I am currently writing a book and in my book (novel) I explain my theory of what happens after death.