very well said dear pam , sometimes i used to think to can just relax only and be a follower but circumstances bring us always to show up, to lead, bring us another project to work and it is not our well but the people who known us ... and being a leader we have the most biggest responsibility to the success of all the people who've trusted on us , but sometimes we failed and the only thing we need to do is to go on and be strong and rise again.