Friend Steem ian, how are you doing tonight, and who is definitely healthy and happy and especially happy with the couple we love so much.

Having an exclusive relationship with a partner requires a full commitment that you will always be together until death separates and is ready to do anything for the sake of this we love.

However, what we see and that often happens today, as time passes, there will be some disturbance, either from outsiders or from your own relationship, which makes the "honeymoon phase" over.

And there are some things you should look at before this bad thing happens.

• Change of attitude

A psychotherapist, Dr. Tina B Tessina, once said, you should begin to be vigilant if your spouse who is usually always home on time, is now coming home more late than usual.

And other changes can also be seen from how to dress more neatly than before or phone bills suddenly swell. Try to find out what happened without accusing.

• Your partner suddenly gives you a gift for no particular reason

Not that you should always be suspicious every time a couple give a gift. However, it would be very strange if the couple suddenly give flowers, and although never previously give, even on Valentine's day though, adds Dr. Tessina.

Usually they do that to cover up the guilt they are experiencing.

• Your spouse bills are always multiplying

Maybe your partner has a new hobby or passion, but should pay attention to the bills. Because usually a credit card can be one solution to find out where your spouse spend his money.

• His work became a secret

Previously, you and your spouse always tell you before you go to bed about the activities in the office and maybe anything you do when not together.

If this has never been done and your partner is like not wanting to talk about his job, then there is a possibility that the couple is keeping something secret, added Dr. Tessina.

Hopefully useful and always cautious, and hopefully be the key early to save your spouse from a bad affair

@hitler-jerman