Simple things to ponder.

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 One advise said, "If you feel that you're at peace and in peace, then that's where you belong." 

The second advise was, "If you're in a difficult and painful situation, then its for you." 

Which one is right? 

I don't know. 

Maybe both are right. 

The point is how we decide on things base on reasons not on feelings. 

Its the mind over body. 

You can fall in love in anything but you have to decide which to fall in love with for a reason.