Will resteem this and follow. Talk, girl, talk. It's the subject I first thought to write about too, because it's what everything comes back to. Every relationship we have, every interaction we have always is informed by this. It's crazy, but it's true. It goes on the backburner then Wham!Bam! out it comes again, rearing it's head, just when everything was going along fine. We just have to keep on dealing with it, comforting our little girl selves, comforting our confused adult selves. Great. Write about it please. Sexuality is so fundamental to our core sense of being. If someone confuses this early on and makes us frightened of ourselves, it effects everything.