In my opinion, if I were to ask can I have a date , without a Sex? Yes, truly , I can date without a sex, because if you really love the person, you are willing to wait if both of you are ready to go with sex, and most importantly in a relationship Respect really matters, respect of oneself decision and perceptions in relationship, you cannot blame the person if she/he wouldn't mind of having sex, as long as you stay together and as long you commit unconditional love with each other, then why not you get into marriage then you can do both the formal and usual scenario of being couple is having sex.