There is no such thing as homophobia. Everyone that says to have a problem with gays always has one of three issues all unrelated to homosexuality:

1. They know no purpose other than the purpose given to them. They think their purpose is in reproducing only.
2. They have homosexual desires and don't like it because of how they notice society treats those people differently, they don't want to suffer.
3. They were mistreated by a gay person at some point and project that pain to all gays.

The reason why people are made to believe their purpose is in reproducing is because of the crazy idea that we do whatever the majority says. All groups want to be a majority and some groups actually encourage their people to reproduce to retain what they think of as power.

People aren't just going to stop having babies, this is an irrational fear that is being artificially fueled by ideologies that can't survive without corrupting young minds.

I've written a bit about how this idea of democracy is hurting us and some ways the blockchain could help: https://steemit.com/religion/@tommycordero/why-the-transsexual-in-me-is-attracted-to-blockchain-tech

I am sure it is very shocking to hear homophobia doesn't exist, what you are experiencing is closer to transphobia. But in reality is just fear of not being of use, not having purpose. It as nothing to do with who you like but rather whether the combination will produce minds that are easy to claim. I call it identity colonialism.

If we understand what is causing maybe we can change it. No one dislikes or fears gays just because they are gay.