Sandra and I always find ways on how to pleasure each other.

We have dozens of sex toys and costumes as well as lubes and condoms we love experimenting with. But there are times when a sex act only involves the mouth and an erogenous body part.

A good example would be rimming.

What is a Rim Job?

A rim job is also known as rimming, analingus, eating ass, butt motorboating or tossing salad. The act itself involves sucking, licking, kissing, and other oral ways of pleasuring your partner’s anus. In short it's an oral-to-anal contact kind of sexual activity.

The good thing about analingus is both men and women can enjoy it. The anus is an erogenous spot filled with nerve endings that can trigger spine-tingling sensations when properly stimulated.

What Does Asslicking Feel Like?

For many couples, rimming is often integrated into the foreplay, especially in preparation for anal sex. However, some consider it as a standalone sex act. If you’re someone who hasn’t experienced it yet, you must be wondering right now what it feels like.

The truth is it’s a whole new kind of experience. The moment your partner’s mouth and tongue start to connect with your anus, you’ll feel shots of intense sensations due to the many nerve endings that exists there. In fact, the mere breathing of your partner near the opening of your anus can already do wonders.

Not only does it feel good, but it also feels a bit "dirty" due to the many taboos associated with anus pleasuring. Sandra keeps telling me that that this makes her hornier.

Is Ass Licking Safe?

One of the major concerns of couples when trying some taboo sex practices is safety. And by now you must be wondering if ass licking is safe at all. The truth is it is. But the first thing to remember is to do it correctly. Before you start sticking your tongue in there is to make sure that the whole area is clean.

There are many ways to clean the anus. There are those who prefer doing an enema beforehand but if that's something you’re not comfortable with, then why bother? Just shower and clean your anus properly with running water. In fact, you can even ask your partner to shower with you so he or she can help you clean that area thoroughly. After all, four hands are better than two!

Another way to ensure that the anus is clean is by removing hair around it. You may not be aware of it but yes, there’s pubic hair down there too. You can shave it if you want or just leave it as is. But for most couples, they don’t want to lick a hairy anus because anything can get stuck in it.

Another way to ensure your safety during rim job is by using a dental dam. It’s a very thin, flexible piece of latex which you can use during oral-to-anus contact or even during oral sex. It serves as a protection against sexually transmitted infections while at the same time allowing the user to stimulate the anus of his or her partner.

Many aren’t very familiar with the dental dam but Sandra and I have tried it several times already. We were able to buy some from an adult store because even pharmacies, where one can easily purchase contraceptives like condoms, don’t normally sell them. And just like with condoms, they’re available in different sizes, colors, and even flavors. In case you have latex allergy, another option is a dental dam made of polyurethane. To be honest, dental dams are more expensive than condoms but trust us, they’re worth every cent.

Aside from dental dam, you can also use a condom for a rim job. It serves the same purpose as when you use it for anal or vaginal penetration. You don’t need to apply a lubricant anymore because condoms are already well lubricated and you can try various flavors to make your ass lick sessions extra special.

A very important reminder when it comes to eating ass is to never go from anal to vaginal stimulation. Even if you have cleaned your anus well and have a dental dam or condom, it’s still a big no-no. You could be transferring bacteria from the anus to the vagina that can cause infection. You’ll be doing more harm than good to your partner.

Important: Analingus does have some risks, and protecting one’s self by using barriers can keep one away from transmitted diseases. As mentioned, using latex dental dam or unlubricated condom by cutting the end of it to use as a barrier can do the trick. Plastic wraps are considered but are untested, yet it does prevent the transmission of fluids. Placing a dab of lubricant on the side that will go against the anus is also helpful.

Protecting one or each other by using barriers during analingus are the best thing to do in order to prevent risking each other to diseases and infections given that there are always risks in taking the oral-anal route. Even when both parties are healthy, there are still a number of diseases and infections that can be contracted through ass licking.

It is better to be aware and keep from being at risk.

Do Women Like Their Ass Licked?

Rimming wasn’t “invented” for nothing! Through history men have always found ways to satisfy their women, from stimulating their clit down to their G-spot. We all want to give our best to our partners.

The first time I tried eating her ass, Sandra was hesitant because she was more worried about me. But I told her to relax and once we were done, she said it was one of the best sexual experiences she ever had.

Her anus was tingling all over and felt sensitive to the touch. She especially enjoyed it when I started to lick her down there with my tongue. Her moans and groans were enough proof that she loves every single second of it.

However, let’s bear in mind that many still consider licking ass as taboo. There are couples who are conservative when it comes to sex or any act related to it. Anal licking for one isn’t something that everybody likes to do. They have that notion in mind that the anus is dirty and there’s no way you want to have it licked, kissed, or even sucked despite the fact that there’s a condom or dental dam for protection.

Hence, never try to force your partner to lick your ass. Respect should always be there. You can always try doing something else to satisfy each other’s desires.

Can Men Enjoy Ass Licking?

As mentioned earlier, ass licking is for everybody. Sandra herself gives me a rim job every now and then, especially when we’re in the mood for pegging. You see, the men’s anus is similar to women’s. It’s composed of the same erogenous nerve endings.

Besides, why should women always have the fun? Men also deserve the same pampering as women and rimming is definitely one of the most enjoyable sex acts around. Nothing beats having your partner’s lips and tongue playing with your anus while at the same time her free hands are giving you a handjob. In most cases, Sandra and I would like rimming each other and we can do that with the 69 position.

If a man enjoys rimming so much, does that make him gay? Of course, not! I’m straight and I crave for a lick ass once in a while. There’s nothing gay about it at all. Many men enjoy it though they may not be as open about it for fear of being labelled as gay.

Ass licking is something that both men and women should at least experience once in their lifetime!

How To Eat Ass Like A Pro!

Whether you’re a newbie or someone who’s used to giving butt licking but still want to learn more, we'll be teaching you some tips and tricks on how to eat ass like a real professional. Sandra and I have been doing this for a long time now and frankly, we’ll be sharing some vital information based from our own experiences.

1. Cleanliness & Preparation

Let’s start with some tips on cleaning the anus. Are you someone who shaves down there? If yes, you may consider getting rid of pubic hair surrounding the opening of your anus. It’s such a hassle and Sandra herself doesn’t like having hair in her mouth. You should also shave there regularly to avoid growth or ingrown hair which can be itchy and uncomfortable.

We always like to start with a nice warm shower or a few minutes of cuddling and cleaning in the tub. She would play some soft music, dim the lights and light up her scented candles.

Sometimes we’ll even have a glass of wine. It’s so relaxing and the ambiance is very romantic, just like her.

2. Flavored Lube

If you’ve read our previous posts, you’ll know by now that we keep a collection of sex toys, condoms, and lubricants. We like to use flavored lubes during anal sex, pegging, and rimming. The flavor adds more color and spice and definitely drives us both crazy. The more flavorful the lube is, the more we love licking and sucking each other’s anus.

I particularly love menthol because it feels so cool in my ass.

3. Positions

In order to get the most out of rimming, you should also try different positions just like with sex. When Sandra game me my first ass licking experience, we did it doggy style. I think that this position is the most convenient of them all for both partners. All you have to do is bend over, position your hips well and spread your legs apart so the one giving the rimming can have the most comfortable access to your ass.

Another easy position is the missionary. It’s a classic not only for penetrative sex but for ass licking as well. The receiver only has to lie on the bed, spread his or her legs apart, and give the giver access to his or her butt. In our case, we often use a pillow or a wedge to elevate the hips for better access. Sandra loves this position because she can finger fuck herself and stimulate her clit with her fingers.

If there’s one position for rimming that works best for both parties it has to be the 69. Just like with oral sex, nothing beats being able to satisfy each other’s desires at the same time. It’s just like 69 when you’re licking and sucking at each other’s genitals except here, you’ll be focusing more on the anus.

4. Ass Licking Techniques

There are many ways to perform rimming. The easiest is using your tongue to make circular motions in the rectum. After that, you can also incorporate sucking, kissing and slurping. Meanwhile, the receiving partner may also consider pushing out, like the action you make when pooping, to open up the rectum and allowing the giver better access. However, make sure you don’t fart otherwise it’ll be a disaster.

So what do you do with your hands during rimming? There’s a lot you can do and one of them is to stimulate your partner’s genitalia. For women, you can give your man a handjob while rimming at the same time (i.e. the dirty trombone) while men can fingerfuck their women while rimming. You can also add sex toys into your anal play. Dildos, G-spot vibrators, anal plugs, and anal beads are just some of the toys we tried over the years.

Tim & Sandra's Pro Tip: In order to make a rim job more convenient for both parties, you may consider adding a pillow or wedge underneath the buttocks. It will help raise the butt and allow the giver to spread his or her legs wider for the receiver to lick and suck. You can also invest in a rim chair or seat.

Rimming Risks

According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control), there are some risks in doing analingus regardless whether the anus is clean and healthy. Putting one’s tongue inside the path of excretion is unhygienic and it is best to be aware. The act of eating someone’s ass (also called analingus, rimming, or tossing salad, can be put one in risk with oral-to-anal associated diseases.

Although there are certain functional and harmless bacteria present in a human’s intestinal tract that take part in the digestion, there is the presence of various germs in the intestinal tract that can lead to one’s exposure to the germs and the infections that follow once a contact happens. According to most medical sources analingus is a vehicle for transmitting STD’s such as Hepatitis A. It can also expose an individual who take part in the act to intestinal parasites such as cryptosporidiosis.

Below are the following diseases that licking booty can cause:

Hepatitis A: This type of hepatitis can be acquired and spread through oral contact with a fecal matter of an infected person. This will cause malfunction of the liver which symptoms are manifested by jaundice, fatigue, and nausea. Unlike hepatitis C, A is not a chronic infection and it can be prevented with a vaccine that should be given before or shortly after the exposure.

E. coli: This one is a bacterial infection caused and can be spread through oral contact with fecal matter of an infected person. Its symptoms are mostly diarrhea, vomiting, and intestinal bleeding.

Intestinal Parasites: These are microbial organism found in the intestinal tract that can cause various intestinal diseases such as cryptosporidiosis, dysentery, and giardiasis. Common symptoms of having intestinal parasites are diarrhea, fever, and stomach pain. Similarly, they can be acquired in being contact with an infected person.

Bacterial infections: These types of infection can be transmitted through oral-anal contact especially when one of the individual involved contracted bacteria such as salmonella. The bacteria will then be shed in their feces, putting the other individual in great risk. Signs of this include diarrhea and vomiting.

Other STDs: There are a handful of STD’s that can be acquired in doing such act. Example is the rectal gonorrhea infection. If the receiving individual has such infection, his or her partner is likely to acquire it too given that gonorrhea can be transmitted through oral-anal contact and vice versa. Other STD’s than can be transmitted through analingus are syphilis and herpes especially when either participant has lesions in either rectal or oral area.

How about HIV Risk?

Fortunately, the chances of being infected with HIV through asshole licking are extremely low in accordance to CDC reports. The HIV virus isn’t found in the feces itself and its presence in the saliva is also too low thus making mouth-to-anal contact less risky when it comes to HIV. There would only be a risk if blood is involved (i.e. the receiving end is bleeding in the rectal part and is infected) and the active partner suffers from active lesion in his oral region.

My First Time Ass Licking Experience

Sandra is more adventurous when it comes to sex. In fact, she’s always the mastermind behind our wild and crazy lovemaking sessions. But one time, I actually surprised her with a special treat.

You see, I’ve been reading about rimming and believe me; at first I didn’t feel like doing it because of sanitary reasons. However, after learning that it’s actually easy and safe to do, considering we prepare beforehand, made me changed my mind.

After having dinner and doing dishes, we were watching TV when I suddenly felt horny. Consequently I invited her for a nice hot bath in the tub and she said sure.

She can read my mind that easily.

Sandra went to the bathroom first and prepared everything. First she lit some aromatherapy candles and put some bath salts in the tub. Then she played some soft music and dimmed the lights. I got into the tub first and then she joined me. Her naked body leaned on mine as I lather her soft skin with bubbles.

She was surprised when my hands lingered longer on her butt, but I told her I love “cleaning” her sexy ass and she didn’t mind at all. I wanted her so much right there but I knew I had to wait.

We got out of the tub, dried ourselves off and went to the bed. She lied down beside me and soon we were kissing each other hungrily.

I positioned myself on top of her and started to trail kisses from her lips down to her neck. My mouth played with her nipples while my hands squeezed her breasts. Her moans filled the room. Then I worked my way lower to her abdomen until my tongue started licking her pussy but I didn’t stop there.

I was on a mission and that was to give her the best ass licking experience ever.

I spread her legs apart and raised her butt a little as I kissed the inside of her legs. Soon, my mouth found her ass and I slowly made little circles with my tongue. I pressed my lips closer to suck her ass and it was amazing. She was holding on to my hair, pressing my head even more to her ass. I let my right hand caress her swollen mound and she started to purr like a kitten. She was so wet as I inserted my fingers into her hole.

I was kissing, licking and making sucking noises in her ass while I continue to fingerfuck her. She was begging me to stop, but I knew it wasn’t what she wanted so I pressed on. It wasn’t long before her scream was heard in the room and her whole body shook. The reaction I got from her only proved I did everything right.

Sandra told me after a while how unforgettable that was. She said it wasn’t like any other orgasm she had felt before.

I finally understood her after she rimmed me a few days later.

Rimming is something that couples will truly enjoy doing. Take it from Sandra and me! We always have an open mind in terms of fulfilling each other’s carnal desires. If you think this is something you’d want to do with your partner, go ahead and give it a try!

/Tim and Sandra

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