#3 Sex Series --------------- The Kiss

Well steemers, we are obviously not talking about how we are supposed to kiss our mother or our friends.
Many men and girls undervalue di power of a kiss.
The kiss is already having sex, are we, turning away the curtains to look out onto the world inside our partner.
Actually, a kiss is everything. Many women evaluate men by the first kiss. Why this? Cause a Kiss beside everything is the first thing that actually let us understanding and settling down the flow.

But why such a simple thing like a kiss is so hard for many?
Cause we don't listen to each other and we don't like to wait mostly.

What does it mean?

We must understand that there are 4 points important while kissing.
1, Discover your partner.
2, Search our partner and Make him/her Search you.
3, Let it happen.
4, Abandon yourself to magic.

You know what i mean? If not follow me.

1, Discover your partner.

Has easy like saying it, when kissing every time not only the first time is like you are going deep into him/her.
You can feel her/his tensions, stress, humor. And you need to act like you were blind from the born.
Did you ever think why people close their eyes while kissing?
Talking scientifically the 70% of our energy is used by the sight. Closing your eyes admits you to enchant the other senses letting you feel everything happening in your partner.
If you are a good listener you can even realize what he/she is thinking of by touching, hugging and kissing him/her.

2, Search our partner and Make him/her Search you.

When we kiss is like when playing music, the pauses are taking the breath between notes.
By moving away from your partner just a few centimeters or don't let him/her go let your partner understand the needing of you and how much you need her/him.

3, Let it happen.

Don't force the things, let them happen, but don't forget that even to win the lottery you need to buy the ticket.
So invite your partner with your gesture to do more and go deeper, don't escalate from 0 to 10 in a second, start slow and than burn the stages.

4, Abandon yourself to magic.

After all this thinking it must be ironical, but yes first we train our self than we shot with our eyes closed hitting the target with much more satisfaction.
Think about what your partner is doing and giving to you, think about you are interecting with her/him and when you feel the ritm close your eyes and dance.

Now you have many things you can do to discover your partner. So lets make an example, a step by step guide for the real first kiss that you are going to give in your life if you don't think it in this way:

JUST AN EXAMPLE NOT A CONSTANT
1, Start by eyes contact, do it with kindness or rough it doesn't matter depends on you, but look your partner in the eyes.
2, Grab her/him by the neck or by the back or by the ass, depends on your relationship. ( i suggest always a slow start and then rush or go slow according to the taste of the couple but a slow start let the couple settle the situation in the right way)
3, Keep the eyes contact and gain centimeters and when your lips are almost touching stop and wait a little bit. She/he might be closing the distance and kiss you or after a few just close your eyes and Tight the hug like it was the thing you waited for your entire life.
4, Start by soft kisses see where her/him wanna go, touch him/her with your hands and try to see her/him by your hand.
5, Now start taking some distance, Point your forehead to his/her forehead moving away from her/his chin like a triangle with your foreheads touching as the edge of a triangle. Now wait, take a breath, make her/him wait with you and start again.
6, You now might start using your tongue, lick her/his lips, make her/him feel you that you want to cross the river.
7, Now after giving this advice to your partner slide away and restart using just your lips, kiss, with your hands make his/her head turn, go till her/his neck and then come back again to the lips.
8, Now you are ready, both of you are ready and well prepared to the upcoming French kiss, so make your way trough her/his lips, kissing and gently pushing in the tongue, feel how he/she response to this, search her/his tongue, caress it like 2 fingers that under the table, away from prying eyes are searching each other, play with it, if she/him push you to pull gently in letting him/her caress you if he/her give you the chances push.
9, Now start searching the flow of this, when the kisses are going faster and passionate follow up with your hands, push or pull your partner to you according to how you are kissing.
10, Focus on being the same thing, 2 faces of the same moon. You need to shine together and to this, both have to bring light.

After this don't forget that you have many things to use:
1, lips
2, tongue
3, Bite
4, Breath
5, Hands
6, Arms
7, Legs
8, Body

If you are always missing one of those "tools" you are not fully kissing your partner.

I hope you enjoyed this third chapter and you will experience a new better kissing way and no people more like licking each other without any criterion!

Free hugs to all steemers from Italy!
Cheers!