Sex Every Day, Between Hope and Reality

In an ideal world, an orgasm should be like water or sleep: we need to get it more often. Unfortunately, we do not live in a perfect world. We drink less water, less sleep, and do not have as much sex as we want.

It was revealed in a recent survey conducted by YouGov who followed more than 1,100 Americans who have a partner about sexual habits. The respondents were asked how often the sex they wanted and the frequency they currently have.

Not surprisingly, there is a gap between the two things. Nearly a quarter of men say they have sex at least once a month. Meanwhile, the majority of respondents said they hoped to make love several times a week.

Interestingly, not a few respondents who want the frequency of sex more often. About 18 percent of men and 9 percent of women said they wanted to have sex every day.

Although many studies conclude the healthy benefits of regular sex, such as preventing cancer and impotence in men, but actually having sex once a week is enough to get that benefit.

Some sex experts say, making love every day for couples who undergo long-term relationship is actually not possible.

Indeed at the beginning of the relationship, when hormones are in high condition you and your partner are in love, the most desirable is no need to get out of the bedroom. However, the condition is only temporary.

On average, the burning sex drive will decline after 6 months or a year of relationship age.

Sex therapists and also columnist Vanessa Marin say, many men do not understand that most women do not like to have sex every day.

If a man only takes 5 minutes to reach orgasm, then women need about 20 minutes and they need clitoral stimulation. "Hence when foreplay should focus is a woman," he said.

So, for men can also make their partner orgasm every day takes time and patience, as well as creativity in bed. And men often do not care about this part.

Making love every day may seem exciting and ideal, but sex should be special. Sex is not the same as duty. Sex should be fun for both parties and it takes more time to enjoy.