I do agree mostly with you on the fact that you need to spend time together, but we sometimes expect too much from a partner. We are our own entity, and not always a union. Experiences don’t always need to be made together, especially if you like other things, and it gives room to admire the other person or interesting stories. I do believe that sexual compatibility is extremely important in a relationship, but needs do change over time, and indeed talking about it is really difficult, because it can easily end up in resentment.