Sex is the Glue - YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED

I am a Pure Romance consultant, dildo slinger, mom and have been married for 25 years. A lot of you will be reading this looking for the funny stories I have posted in the past. Today we are going to be getting down and dirty and ending with YOUR questions. I can't wait to see what you want to know!

I started doing what I do, because I do liked to talk about sex with my friends and loved the idea of being able to help relationships last. Women need help in the bedroom, if you don't think that is true then you need to be educated a little more.

This week I learned of a friends marriage ending after over 20 years. Knowing my friends and having had talked about sex a few times with both of the couple separately, I personally believe that their intimate life played a very large roll among other things in the divide between them.

Ladies if you are reading this story and you want your relationship to last, you NEED to find a way to love sex. Sex can be the glue to a marriage. If you can connect with your partner on the most intimate level and have a deep need to keep that connection, then you can get through the hard times.

Believe me, I have had hard times. Never did I think that of all my friends I would be the one still married. My relationship has had more downs than ups over the years, but I would not consider living a day without my husband. He is my everything and the person I would like to strangle on a regular basis.

Your men need sex and you need sex. Go outside of your comfort zone and learn what you can do to make your desire for sex better. Get a high quality lubricant if you are dry, use a sex enhancement cream if you if suffer from a low sex drive. Use ben-wah balls for vagina health and to increase your sex drive.

If you are thinking that this is some old school 50's serve your man, stuff. It is not! My husband would tell you, I suck at serving. He definitely is the winner of that in our relationship. This is for you, ladies! You need to connect with your partner in a way that only sex can do. You NEED to have orgasms and you need them OFTEN. It is for your health. You will live longer and be mentally healthier. Studies have proven over and over that women who have regular orgasms are happier, and you can bet their men are too!

9 out of 10 women CANNOT have an orgasm during intercourse. Men if you are reading this PLEASE for the love of God, figure out where the clitoris is and rub it until she cums EVERY TIME you have sex. Can you imagine if every time you had sex all you did was rub her clit and that was it? That would get old fast! So why are you having sex and NOT rubbing HER sex organ? And a vibrator is NOT to replace you, a vibrator is to make her cum. You want to see that, right? You want to see it every time, right? Did you know that women who own vibrators have more sex? No kidding! So buy her a sex toy, if you are at a loss as to where to start, get a rechargeable bullet. This is something she can use during intercourse WITH YOU inside her. Win WIN!

Lastly, for the ladies. If you are not happy in the bedroom, YOU are the only one who can change that. HE is not going to. Men stick it in the whole the same way every time and get the same results. It's, for most men, simple and easy. They do not need more. Women are not the same. Our minds are our biggest sex organ and we need continual fresh stimulation. Bedroom products, different locations, music, lingerie, a good romance novel and so many other things can keep your mind and senses stimulated to help you enjoy your love life. Do not be lazy in bed, do not stick with the same position every time for years. You deserve GOOD sex! Sex that makes you want to do it again, and again, and AGAIN!

So when you read this story, start by going to the book store and getting a romantic novel, there is a reason why those things are so popular. It doesn't have to be the explicit ones, unless that is what you like, it just needs to make you fall in love. Then get a sexy piece of lingerie. This is for you, when you feel sexy, sex is better. Slip on your heels, the ones that only feel good when your legs are in the air. Get rid of the children and have a date night at home. Get a vibrator, a good lube, sex enhancement cream, and a few things you have never tried. Turn on the music, whatever music helps you get in the mood. And when he gets home, let him know that you are ready to be seduced.

Now is YOUR turn. I have learned a lot about sex over the years, from a lot of great sex educators. So ASK your questions. What would you like to know about sex? What would you like to know about sex products, creams, vibrators, oral gels, fifty shades products, etc. What would you like to know about spicing things up?

LET'S CHAT! Ask me anything about sex and relationships.

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