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"We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give"
— Winston Churchill
Have you ever noticed that by doing a good deed that you feel personal fulfilled? That’s why a lot of people will do some local charity or even give to goodwill. They feel personal fulfillment by helping someone who is less fortunate than themselves. Sometimes you will notice that it is hard to express your own feelings, but you can seek out someone and help them with a small problem, and then all of a sudden you find comfort. This is because you connected with someone and you felt less alone. If you are able to help someone, you will feel a lot better about yourself because of the happiness of another. Even the most selfish person can find personal fulfillment from helping others.
We have all felt the dread that comes from being cajoled into giving, such as when friends ask us to donate to their fundraisers. In these cases, we are more likely to give to avoid humiliation rather than out of generosity and concern. This type of giving doesn’t lead to a warm glow feeling; more likely it will lead to resentment. Instead we should set aside time, think about our options, and find the best charity for our values.