How To Seduce Anyone

The Art of Seduction

The objective of seducing someone is to get that person to do what you want them to do. Many operations are built on seduction and are integrated in our everyday lives through work, business etc.

In order to be truly seductive you cannot appear as someone who is trying to seduce. It has to be natural and almost undetectable to your person of interest. If it is not done correctly then your person of interest may be able to sense that they are being manipulated.

Reach People Mentally

In order for you to seduce someone you have to get to their mind. One of the steps in doing so is through creating a false sense of security with the person of interest. The person must feel that you are safe to be around and someone they can talk to or relate to. Observe what the person enjoys doing and discuss it with them casually in conversation. It will appear as if you have a similar interest to them and it will allow them to open up considerably.

Send mixed signals. Make your person of interest feel as if they can never get a hold on you but also feel like they are liked. It is a "hot" and "cold" method. One minute you show them you like them and at another moment you are more distant. This keeps the person on alert and wanting to gain more of your affection.

Feed weaknesses. Allow the person to feel like you can provide their desires. If they love chocolate, give the person of interest chocolate now and then. If they enjoy partying, go out with them and show them a good time. If they enjoy having a drink, drink with them to show you enjoy it as well. This will allow the person to become more dependent on you as you are their "feel good" model.

Stir interest before they go elsewhere. Allow the person of interest to feel as if they don't really know you. Whenever you have a conversation with them, agree on something but also disagree on another topic. Mix it up. Show the person that you are not always going to agree with them and it will make them more attentive to what you say. Not being too predictable will prevent the person of interest from fully understanding you.

Appear To Be a Object of Desire

Most people know that when someone is jealous over you it means they care. Although not always the case, making someone slightly intimidated through jealousy can encourage a person to want you more by competing for you.

Appear more popular. The more popular you are the more someone is interested in knowing what is so special about you that you are the center of attention. This allows you to make your person of interest see how wanted you are by others. Even if you are not popular you can create the illusion that you are by appearing to be busy and sociable.

Create a need by stirring anxiety and discontent. Remind the person of interest of a flaw they may have, this can cause someone to feel insecure and wonder if you are attracted to them. Give in to the temptations of your person of interest. Whatever it is that they like most, give it to them, but take it away on occasion. Allow the person's desires to feel like something you can provide. Never give too much though, this will keep the power in your hands as the person of interest wants more from you.

Do small actions to distract. Think of thoughtful small things you can do for the person of interest. The simple things will distract the person from any doubt they may have had about you. The simple details will make someone feel as if they are understood and noticed.

Make a bold move. Once your person of interest is close to you, make the first move if they are too shy to do so on their own. The bold move will come as a surprise to the person of interest and they will feel flattered and wanted. The bold move can be a kiss, hug, asking someone out, asking for something, any move you desire to make you can do it depending on the stage you are at with this person.

Once your person of interest is seduced you are very likely to get what you want or simply deserve from someone. I digress, this does not have to be done in a romantic manner, as I mentioned before, the art of seduction is used almost everywhere in our daily lives. Use the art of seduction wherever you feel it is needed, the beauty of it is, its an art, so go out there and practice!!