RE: "The Hunters And Gatherers Issue" - An Open Letter To My Future Ex Affair
So dear future ex affair of mine, here's what I wanna let you know: if you're a hunter, then be. And if you wanna be a swan, then be.
But don't try to be both.
It's impossible and will only lead to trouble and pain.
This is so true. If you want to "conform" with society, make sure that you're ready and willing to do it. If you truly want to spend your life with one person, make sure that you find the RIGHT person!
Trial and error is how all good things come about.. so go out there and live. Trials are your dates and/or relationships. Errors are the Failed Trials. Eventually you'll learn more about yourself, and learn more about others, and learn exactly what you want (if you even still want to be in a relationship or not).
Now I could go down a whole other rabbit hole of men's instincts to procreate, but that would cause a whole different conversation about self control and nature vs nurture and survival of the fittest and countless more "evolutionary" learnings.
Thanks for the post :)
Sure! Life is learning, and we are the sum of our choices and decisions.
Would you touch the scientifical approach Luke mentioned above then? Well actually I would love to hear/read more about it. But maybe you should just write an article about it then...? :)
Thank YOU for commenting! I enjoyed it much.
Anytime :)
Maybe I'll think about how to write this. I feel like it would take me weeks to edit and review! haha
Haha, doesn't it feel always like that if you're going to write about something really important...? :)
Always! It becomes a daunting task. Then I think "ok, I'll split it into multiple posts" ... but that doesn't always help either haha