How To Read ANYONE

in science •  last year

How To Read ANYONE
Today we are going to cover the skill of reading people. Which is an awesome skill - to be able to know what someone is thinking or feeling will save you a lot of grief. You won’t look silly talking to someone who is not interested, you’ll get a better of idea of who is interested and isn’t saying anything.

But we won’t stop there

Because one of the most amazing things that developing your ability to read an individual does is that it enables you to improve. And I saw in the comments, a lot of you were asking what I studied to be able to do the charisma breakdowns - truly there was no class - it was just a matter of doing these steps over and over. And there is a science to it.

So let’s get into

  1. Increase self-awareness
  2. Find where their attention is (eye contact is huge)
  3. Get good at identifying micro-expressions, potentially use this site:
  4. Identify common patterns
  5. Make predictions based on people's body language
  6. Experiment in your own life

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I love your insights! Keep posting more

Interpreting facial expression is a very good way of reading people. Emotions can sometimes be difficult to hide and mostly tells on the expression of people's faces

Self awareness I totally agree in. Find it interesting these days to read other people since we could gain access to so many more people by using the Internet. So we can faster detect patterns in large groups of people than just with offline interactions!

I like what you said about truly having attention when others speak and focusing on them. This is a key area where I think have 10% more attention will truly be noticeable by the other person since you will ask a little sharper questions in return. That little extra sharpness can truly have an exponential value return effect!

So true what you said about the scientific approach. Need to do thousands of experiments to get real sharp in pattern recognition skill. That was hilarious the eye thing! 😂 Yeah we are all different so some things work better for others!

A big part for us is also to realise how much we could learn from other people that also has detected patterns so we could save time and energy by closely listen to others doing things that fascinates us. Mostly by realising how ignorant we are in terms of knowledge! If we only go by our own experience in life then it will take too long time! Books and Real humans best way to spot interesting new patterns in life!

Fail more in life is what most people need to do. Since then they will really super fast detect patterns of what works and what doesn’t. Since we are highly intelligent and on an subconscious level we pick up new patterns. We just need more input and data to be able to be sharper with our future predictions!

you are so fun man

This is like Tim Roth in Lie to me :D

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