God has planned our blessing in all areas of our lives.
"Because I know very well the plans that I have for you, so the Lord affirms, plans of well-being and not of calamity.
We only need to enter into a communion based on love, to enter into a search for God that will lead us to know what his plans are, and so we will understand his purpose and his will, because everything we have of Him comes from, and as you say darlenys01, "the blessing of God, is the one that enriches and does not add sadness with it".
Blessings.