Yesterday, shopping with A Nan, she told me about such a thing.
Annan had a high school veteran called Yangzi. At that time, the relationship between the two had been very good. Although Tiannan Haibei had already had less contact, there would be greetings and greetings on the holidays.
Not long ago, Yangzi called A Nan and talked about the interesting things they had when they went to school together. After a while, Anan remembered that there was something in his hand that was not busy, and he said that he had to go busy. Finish talking again.
The Yangzi did not say that he had hanged up. A Nan asked her: "Do you have anything? You can't say anything about this relationship."
Yangzi said: "Hey, my husband, my husband, lost money in business. Today, the bank’s people come to the door to pay for it. He doesn’t know where to go. The phone is not answered, the news is not returned, and the children’s kindergarten is Paying money, this is really... oh, can you borrow me 20,000 yuan for emergency, I will pay you back next month."
Anan said: "Ah? So serious, I haven't paid any wages yet. I am not rich at all. Can you see 10,000?"
The other party said yes, and repeatedly expressed thanks, A Nan transferred the money to the Yangtze.
Saying that "the next month is still", the Yangtze has not taken the initiative to contact Anan. A Nan rented a house close to the company. The rent is also expensive. He called to ask if the Yangzi had turned around and could not put money. Give it to yourself.
At the beginning, the other party was also perfunctory, saying that the next day, next week, and two days, then simply did not answer the news and did not return, played a missing.
Anan said: "I can regret now lending her money to her. I really thought that she just wanted me to talk about the old. It seems that the old classmates who have said that they have not been in contact for a long time call and can’t pick up. Be cautious, it really makes sense."
It is said that people and people depend on the truth rather than the routine, but there are always people who consume their own personalities and connections, thinking that they can set the way to others, but they do not know that they hurt the deepest feelings.
People's hearts change people's hearts, and the routines will only be indifferent and dead.
I have always felt that it doesn't matter if people don't contact each other for a long time. After all, life is so long, there are always many relationships that go away and go away. Always get used to those who leave without saying goodbye.
But for many people who really care, I hope that no matter how long, each other can really treat each other and be honest. You don't have to remember it, but you don't forget it. When you want to meet again, you can still slap it back and laugh.
I don't know how, if people experience more, they will always lose their original appearance. If you look at that face, it is still the face, but the heart, but not necessarily the heart.
I have been confiding more than once, saying that my best friend, my attitude towards myself, is not as sad as my own treatment of TA. I am very sad.
In fact, people are not stupid. Maybe they can be deceived and even betrayed because they are not defended. They can be difficult to have two, and there will be no more than two.
People are mutual, friends are really right for you, but you always play with your heart and play routines, even if you are a good friend, there will always be a day of alienation from you.
Relationships are maintained by each other. Don't always think about who is cheaper. Don't always care about the gains and losses. Calculate the calculations. The final calculation must be yourself.
If you can't get together, you can see goodbye, and if you can get along, you can get along well and be able to make a difference. Don't play tricks.
By relying on routines, you may be able to get along with each other for a while, but you will always be tired of routines. If you want to get along with each other for a long time, you must be true and not a routine.
May we, all of us, be true and sincere, and meet our sincere friends.