good question! I guess we both were quite amazed about our "story" in the beginning, and the fact that it was even possible to get so connected with someone without even meeting him/her.
However when we made our relationship official and got to see each other more often this "fantasy" changed a lot. Sure we both had doubts, and I guess we didnt want to ruin our relationship partly because we didnt want to ruin our story either.....
Anyway now we are in a more normal situation and can appreciate each other for who we truly are :)

You may want to check out Ninas side of the story too:
https://steemit.com/love/@ninahans/this-is-how-we-met-according-to-nina