Taking responsibility for the self is a big decision but, it puts control in your hands rather than be a victim of circumstances. The hard work isn't just the blood, sweat and tears, it is the blood, sweat and tears doing the right things. For each person it is different what is needed which is why, each person needs to take the responsibility in the first place because no one is going to do the work for us.

It is like exercise, you can go to the gym and work incredibly hard but, I m not going to get into better shape because of your effort.

Being away from home can be hard I know. I live in Finland, my family is in Australia.

Work out what you want from life today, work out what you need to d to get there, work for it, revue your movements, adjust for new ideas. repeat, and revue and keep your eyes, ears and attitude open for opportunities.