I don't know if it's I invited him to the discussion (by accident...but I'd invited him anyway if I had thought he'd been interested, I just thought he was all about himself from how he's depicted here) (lol)or a certain someone involved in the dispute also gave him an extra prompt. No worries though, yeah it's sad I took on such a controversial subject after finally getting on a roll to post but I guess that's the luck of the draw, but now that's over I'll be free and clear to continue on, which I plan to do. He can strike it all away, I have better luck finding change in the bottom of the washer then I make on here, I'll just have to make myself scoop it up to feel better. I am still in the investigative, learning stage and have gathered some interesting things.

What is really driving me the most underneath is the fact that I have lived my whole life standing up for myself as a woman and I have never stood down in the battle to be treated fairly as a woman and to be recognized for my work ethnic not taken from based on how other woman what to play for pay and will push you aside in any such endeavor. That has never been me, ever, and I'll tell you it's cost me way more than Haejin will ever even attempt to come close to. I am about as afraid of him as any man whose ever tried to take me down...they may win in the end but I never come anywhere near losing what those other woman lost when something new and exciting came along, if they'd learned to stand on their own two feet to begin with they may have survived the blows as I did. It's just something I can't tolerate personally, nothing against him but he won't be the first man to try and tell me I'll sit quietly by and watch woman make money for doing little of nothing at my expense no matter how small. If they don't get it figured out this battle won't just be fought internally.