im not sexist whatsoever... In fact you shouldn't be pointing fingers as to who is being sexist.
The equality that you want has already been established and we've been given our role which is made known through scripture.
I already understand that man and woman are all equally one in Christ Jesus.
The weird thing is that you dont see that, which i am not pushing my own opinion on you, i'm just reffering you to the Word that you should hold to it and not stray away from it, running ahead with your own biased opinion. Because in your mind you think there is a separation, when in Truth we're all speaking the same Word.
Matthew 19:4 “Haven’t you read,” He replied, “that He who created them in the beginning made them male and female,” 5 and He also said:

“For this reason a man will leave
his father and mother
and be joined to his wife,
and the two will become one flesh?

6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, man must not separate.”

In the beginning when God made "man", He made "man" male and female. Woman didn't exist until GOD separated Eve from Adam, women are bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh.
Male and female doesn't even exist when we are in Christ, we are together as one, we are "man".

Galatians 3: 27 For as many of you as have been baptized into Christ have put on Christ like a garment. 28 There is no Jew or Greek, slave or free, MALE OR FEMALE; for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29 And if you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, heirs according to the promise.

Getting into further texts like The Gospel of Thomas, it goes to say that women will not enter the kingdom unless they become like unto "man".
The way you become like "man" is through marriage... The good news is that we are all grafted into Christ through marriage... Not a worldly marriage, but a holy marriage, a reunification of man, woman, and God.