Really good post!

Before I found my spouse, I went on tons of dates. I was often more interested in the other person than they were of me. It was always disappointing when they didn't feel the same way. There were other times when I thought other person didn't "feel right" to me, and so I decided not to continue dating them.

Eventually I found someone who did want to continue dating me just as much as I wanted to date them, and now we are married :)