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RE: Why Polyamory was Right for me - Part. 1
My partner was cheating me last January. We talked a lot then and ultimately we decided to keep our relationship with no drama. She just agreed that I will have my chance to cheat in turn, though "cheat" is not the correct word in the case...
Oh, that sounds like an interesting solution! How has that worked out for you?
I went through many negative emotions at the beginning, such as grief, anger, dissapontment and desperate. Then I just realized it will be the wisest solution to preserve our family intact. Each of us now has the freedom to do whatever want with whoever wish...
Can she cheat again, if you do not use your option, and if you do, do you have to inform her on this matter?
She can cheat, of course, so can I! There are no specific obligations to inform each other about cheating, but why not after all?!
Any will do, it is just curiosity)