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RE: Is Marriage Really Worth it?
I disagree. Men give up too many rights by getting married. If they have children, then that's it, they have very few rights when thing go bad!
So many men have become homeless, destitute or even killed themselves, simply because they bought into the 'marriage, wife and chidren' tradition/plilosophy.
Umm, the man has the right to say "no" before getting married. If he gets married he is responsible for the marriage and the children and everything that follows is his responsibility, marriage, a wife and children cannot be blamed for this.
Thanks @sweetpea you just nailed it. Everyone should be held responsible for their decisions. Marriage is no child's play and it's not a blind date. There must have been a wedding at least, with some vows taken in front of some witnesses.
So everyone is expected to walk into it with full information about what happens in marriage. The problem is, most folks just want the bliss without the sacrifice and it doesn't really work that way.
You do realize that it is usually women who divorce men, rather than the other way round?
"Umm, the man has the right to say "no" before getting married."
And?
I am saying that they should say "no", so your answer is redundant.
Any way, I think you should be saying, "everything that follows is his AND HER responsibility". My point was that women get more rights than men even though we are supposed to have equality. Many men do not know this when they are getting married.