30 Seconds Hack to Save your relationship

Hey guys here is the 30 seconds hack to en arguments and save your relationship. And keep in mind this technique is for mature people. See, there are some people that are addicted to fighting, but if you truly seek to end conflict with your loved one this will surely save your relationship after fight.

Step 1

Pause

Isn't it when you get angry you get hot it feels like a fire is burning inside of you? Well let that fire die down through a pause. Bring you attention to this moment not the past not the future but right now. I like to do this by taking three deep breaths. Put your full attention on your in.breath and on your out-breath just become your breath.

Step 2

Approach your loved one and interlock your fingers whith thiers. hold their hand for about ten seconds. You know it is said that it is impossible to be mad if you are holding hands.

One study showed that participants were able to cope better with pain and discomfort when they were holding hands, becase the act of holding hands decrease the levels of stress harmones like cartisol in their body.

Step 3

Embrace your loved one for a heart to heart hug.

Step 4
As you embrace your loved one close your eyes and breath deeply match the tempo of your breath with theirs and become aware that you both are alive.

Step 5 The final step
now as you are embracing your loved one I want you to think about where you and your loved one will be after hundred years ? How does that feel? Emote that.

What does it feel like to know that you and your loved one will one day be gone and forgotten.

After about 30 seconds open your eyes I guarantee you that you will realize just how precious it is to be alive. You are still here your loved one is still here and you still have an opportunity on this planet to choose love.

Now ask yourself is what you were fighting about really worth it?