The Truth About Getting Your Ex Back: 3 Things You Must Not Do After a Breakup

So you’ve been dumped and you’re feeling awash with all kinds of horrid emotions…maybe even acting a little insane? This article focuses on the top 3 things NOT to do after a breakup, but there is a silver lining at the end of the article. I’ll reveal a tried and true resource for help in getting your ex back.

Don’t Be a Terrorist

If you have been text bombing, drunk dialing or showing up at your Ex’s home acting crazy. You must stop that behavior NOW! Trust me, desperation is an ugly state to be in and this is not going to help in getting your Ex back. In fact you might gain a restraining order instead of reconciliation.

Don’t Give Away Your Power

Maybe you don’t think you can live without the love of your life, but you can. Counting on someone else to bring you happiness is giving away your power and is one of the most common reasons why couples break up.

Photo: on the street of Paris, 2015

Trying to change someone to fit your particular agenda simply doesn’t work and it will always backfire – guaranteed.

You alone are responsible for your thoughts, actions and feelings and that includes happiness. No one else can do that for you, nor do they want to. Self reliance is an attractive quality and one that should be cultivated.

Don’t be a Coward

Avoid any urge to use a friend or family member as a mediator between you and your ex. This ‘message service’ approach is childish and shows weakness of character. Your ex may very well lose whatever trust and respect is left for you and you’re not likely to win it back. Put yourself in his or her shoes – would you appreciate this approach?

Okay, now that we have all the negative stuff out of the way, realize that you will get through this just fine. For help in getting your ex back, I am pleased to reveal this excellent resource that helped me along with thousands of others to repair a romantic relationship gone sour.

Photo: on the street of Paris, 2015