Healthy Relationship Tips #4

Beauty, great physique, great sex, money, generosity and fame can buy you love; but it is who you are that will preserve it.

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Most of us already have the advantage to attract the type of partner that we desire: we have the looks, physiques, class, money or whatever it is that is required to get the attention of the kind of partner that we desire but these people we attract hardly show any willingness to commit to us after coming close. Is it that they are scared of commitment or we don't seem to have what they are looking for in a long term partner?

Having the outward quality that someone would see and want to get close to you is a big plus in attracting a partner, but, is that all there is to you? Aside your beauty, great physique, great sex, fame and money, what else have you got that would make the partner that you've attracted to want to commit to you without hesitation?

When you have no other thing to offer to the partner you've attracted other than what he/she sees on the surface, he/she will see no need to go all the way in the relationship journey with you. It's who you are that will determine if your prospect will commit to you or not. Most of us try to polish "what we are" without paying any attention to "who we are". What you are will only attract someone to you but it's who you are that will determine if you'll keep them.

Love influenced by what you are hardly lasts; but love influenced by who you are will always stand the test of time. So don't just work on attracting the partner alone, also working on keeping the partner if that's what you're looking for by improving on who you are.

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