Dealing With A "Fair Weather" Woman

A ‘fair weather’ woman is the type of woman that any young man should never wish to commit his life to in a relationship because they are very unreliable and selfish. In short, committing yourself to such category of women in a relationship is a very big risk and such relationship always ends up in disaster. This category of women are women whose love and care have a very big condition attached to it. Don’t all love have conditions attached to them? You may ask. Yes, most love have conditions attached to them, but a fair weather woman’s love has the condition of “only available for good times only”.

Their love and care is known as “good time” love. They have a lot of love and care to give to you for as long as things are going well with you. For as long as the money doesn’t cease and the gift doesn’t stop flowing, they’re very loyal and very loving. In fact, they can do anything for you, as long as there’s a financial or material benefit in the end. Such women’s love and loyalty are always financially or materially influenced.

A fair weather woman is an angel when things are good. She will do your biddings, treat you like a king, tolerate your excesses and even go out of her way sometimes to make you happy, because she knows that there’s something to be gotten in return. She doesn’t do things for free or out of love. She always expects repayment for everything she does either materially or financially. To her, loving and showing care to someone is a service that must be paid for either financially or materially. Her love and loyalty always have a financial or material price attached to it.

Most men make the mistake of interpreting such women’s loyalty as love only for them to realize the hard way that she never truly gives a fuck about them when things had turned around for them or she had seen a more generous spender. The statement that “it is only in your low moments that you can truly tell who loves you” is very true.

A fair weather woman will hardly stay with you during a hard time. If she does, she will make your life a living hell until you get fed up and either call off the relationship or hang yourself. Even if a fair weather woman decides to support you during your low moment, she will make sure that she lets everyone know that she’s the one bearing the expenses in the relationship and her behavior toward you will be very disrespectful. She’ll make it very clear to you that you are at her mercy and there’s nothing you can actually do about it.

Fair weather women hardly understand that life is in seasons - that sometimes things may be good and some other times it may go bad and you would require their help or support. They are very selfish and don’t understand what the word ‘love’ truly means. Any man committing himself to such category of women is doing himself a very big disservice. Unless you’re very certain that things will always be good for you, don’t ever risk committing yourself to a fair weather woman for a long term relationship. They are good for flings, but when it comes to commitment and building a long term relationship with someone that will go all the way with you, such category of women shouldn’t be an option.

Regardless of how beautiful, loving, caring, loyal and wonderful your current partner may seem now, if you observe any trait of a fair weather woman in her, you have to run without looking back because such women are fast route to an early grave should things later turn around for you. If you know you can’t stand the humiliation such women dish out to their partners when things are no longer working well for such partners, don’t risk going into a committed relationship with such category of women so as to avoid living the later days of your life in sadness, depression and frustration.

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