MAKING THE RIGHT CHOICE

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In Making the RIGHT CHOICE of a Life Partner, Suitability Precedes Compatibility, But Compatibility Is All-Encompassing, It Includes But Begins With Suitability. Look Up The Definitions of the Two Words in a Dictionary.

Someone Suitable Is Someone That is Right for You. But Someone Compatible with You Is Someone You Can Live in Harmony With and Have No Problems or Major Problems and Frictions With.

So, Someone Must First Be Right for You (Suitable) in Oder for You Two to Be Able to Live Together in Harmony Without Problems or Frictions.

That Means Suitability Leads to Compatibility, and Compatibility Starts With Suitability. Therefore, Suitability Is the Starting Point of the Marriage Journey While Compatibility Is the End-Focus, the Destination, Where You Are Going.

Can Two Work Together Except They Be Agreed? (Amos 3:3, KJV) Is Talking About Compatibility. But on the Basis of Suitability ("I Will Make Him a Help Meet for Him" (Genesis 2:18, KJV) Or "I will make him a helper suitable for him." (NIV)

A Suitable Helper Is Talking about a Right Helper. And What Makes Her or Him Right Is the Fact That She Is Compatible With Him, He Is Compatible With Her.

So GOD Used the Suitability of the Helper to Achieve the Compatibility of the Couple in Order to Achieve Compatibility in the Marriage.

Someone Must First Be Right With You Before They Can Live With You in Harmony and Without Problems or Frictions. So We Begin With "Rightness," But We Are Going to "Living."

So, You Look for Someone Who Is Right for You So He or She Can Live With You in Peace and Without You Two Having Problems or Major Problems, Without You Two Breaking Each Other's Head Tomorrow.

But, the Rightness Does NOT Mean PERFECT. But That They Can Co-Exist and Function Together Without Troubles Despite Their Mistakes and the Short Comings of Each of Them in the Marriage.

So, a Successful Relationship That Will Become a Happy and Successful Marriage Begins With Suitability, Finding the Right Person. But the Goal of That Suitability or the Focus of That Search Is Compatibility, Living Together Without Problems or Major Problems.

Therefore, Compatibility Must Be the Focus of Any Marriage. Because Compatibility Is the Natural Way to Determine Suitability.

ONLY GOD KNOWS WHO IS SUITABLE FOR YOU, BUT YOU CAN NOW NATURALLY DISCOVER THAT PERSON BY FINDING WHO IS COMPATIBLE WITH YOU.

Hence, SUITABILITY IS SPIRITUAL, And It Can Only Be Discovered through DIVINE REVELATIONS or Hearing the Voice of GOD. But COMPATIBILITY IS NATURAL, It Can Be Detected Through HUMAN OBSERVATIONS and Making Research on Yourself and the Person.

COMPATIBILITY IS THE NATURAL TEST FOR THE DISCOVERY OF (or that will help us to discover) THE SPIRITUAL SUITABILITY. It Is the Natural Way By Which You Will Know the Spiritual Thing of Who Is Suitable, the Right Person, for You for Marriage.

So the Only Natural Way You Can Know Whether Someone Is Suitable for You for Marriage is By First Discovering Whether the Person Is Compatible With You for Living.

That's just soo true