Alright, my people, it is another Saturday morning again and I am more than grateful to the great sustainer for keeping me and my ever supportive and amazing friends who have made it a point of duty to make this show a success, may God bless and keep you for me.
So I officially welcome you to another episode of let's talk about it with @oluwatobiloba, I must confess that I am really excited to have you around today and you mean so much to me. This show is getting better with your comments and advise and I will appreciate any opinion from you to make the show a better one.

Report From The Last Episode.

It was a long chat with the young man who came around last week, you know when you have a man who loves sincerely it is really painful for them to make any concrete decision, but after periods of weighing things, we decided on what should be done and I am so glad that he made a good decision for himself which has helped him face life with a stronger perspective and with a smile on his face as well.
He has sent me to say thank you for the amazing contribution, he wishes he could come out to express how grateful he is but your comments really meant a lot to him.

Relationship-Based Question For The Week.

I over-heard some ladies arguing about something this week, and I decided to ask the question on the show today to know what your opinion is about the matter.
If you are in a relationship with someone, I mean a very serious one that looks as if it will lead to marriage, do you think it is a good idea to flaunt the person's image on social media, describing how much you love the person or do you think it is best you keep it to yourself?

One of the individuals who was involved in the argument claimed that until she gets married to the man, she will never put his picture on social media, to avoid stories that touch the heart, so what is your opinion? Please, I will like to know, just drop a reply in the comment section.

Straight To Today's Love Issue.

I meet this young pretty and intelligent young lady some weeks back, her spoken English is so on point and I really do like her. But, I became heartbroken when she came to me with tears in her eyes. I felt very bad when I heard her story, but you know that as the little girl that I am, I cannot just give conclusions on matters of the heart, I have to run here to receive guide and help from you and you.
I will relate the message to you, the exact way I got it.

Hello everyone, my name is Mary and I am a young lady of 23 years, I am someone who is really very careful about going into any relationship because the stories I have heard about heartbreak is something I do not want to ever experience.
I meet this young man three years back and I liked him very much, he told me about how much he loved me and how he will like me to become his girlfriend and even his wife when he eventually gets settled.

The truth of the matter is that we were friends for about a year before he finally told me what he wanted from me and I like that idea, that even made us more close and free with each other. He was my first boyfriend and I was his first girlfriend as well.
We are really fond of each other, as we play and laugh like babies all the time, I enjoy having him around and it was obvious that he really enjoys my company as well.

For some months now he has been extremely close to this young lady who likes to call him and message him constantly. I complained about the numerous calls because she calls him even very late at night but he reassured me that everything was fine that she was just a friend.
But, last week I received the greatest shock of my life when I found out that he had an affair with the lady. I noticed he had not been himself and he gets scared at every little call or message that comes into his phone, he confesses his love to me over and over again. I asked if everything was fine and he said yes. The cat was let out of the bag one day I was holding his phone and a text message came in from the lady, which read that she has missed him and she does not understand the reason why he has been avoiding her.
I wanted to know more, so I opened his messages and chat with her, the young lady was telling him that she wanted him again, she enjoyed the pleasure and all sort of dirty talks. Although, I also read the message where he told her that what happened between them was a mistake which he regrets and he told her that it will never repeat itself ever again.
He also wrote in the message that he does not want anything to ruin his relationship and that he loves his girlfriend so much.

But, the fact that he even had an affair with her is something that is really painful, he has been pleading with me to forgive him that it was just a mistake which will never happen again. But the thing is that I trusted him and now I have this to deal with.
I definitely cannot get over him like that, I have never loved another person and he is certainly okay for me, he is everything I want in a man.
Do you think I should believe that he will never cheat on me again and stay with him or I should just ignore my heart and walk out of the relationship?

@oluwatobiloba, I am really counting on you for this one, I don't want to make any mistake that I will regret.

Moderator's Remark.

This last word really got me, but don't worry darling, I have capable minds around who will help us out with this one.
So this is what we have for this week, I will need your assistance as always to help me trash out this situation and you know I always trust your judgment.

I want you to always remember that there is no show without you, you have a special place in my heart and I cannot thank you enough but I know that the faithful God will reward us all. Thank you so much.

##SHOUT-OUTS.

@official-hord: To @illuminatus, you are the best brother in the world man, see you at the top.

@korexe: To @zizymena, I wish you the best of health.
To everyone that has been of support during the course of the week, I say a big thank you.

@illuminatus: To @jblsignature and @florae. I love them from the depth of my heart. Even if the sky is falling down, my love for them will stay strong.

@olamisexy: My shout-out goes to all Muslims across the world in this month of Ramadan, and I am using this as an opportunity to implore them to stay away from whatsoever can nullify their fasting. I pray that the Almighty Allah will accept our fasting and our ibaadah in this month of holiness.

Secondly, I want to say a big thanks to this wonderful set of people @gbenga, @bat-junior, @henry-9ja, @steve1122, @illuminatus, @kolaolabode is being really nice meeting you guys. My prayer for you all is more grace to your elbow. (warafaAAnahu makanan AAaliyyan).

@honourmaus: A special shout-out to my boss @gbenga and @maryfavour.
A heavy greeting to good friends to @ewuoso and @harbysco.
Special greetings to all my customers.
Do have a great weekend. Be good!!!

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