What Went Wrong?
A question was asked about a three months old couple. The wife was getting constantly hit by the husband and it was raised what went wrong?
I have always been a firm believer that the warning signs has always been there but the lady never took notice of such. It starts with little things and this is why i always tell people never to go into a relationship with just your heart, but your head too; so when your heart is beating for love, your head can justify your partner's actions with their words. Love isn't blind, it only ignores.
I still believe lack of accountability on the part of the man too. Who is the guy answerable to? Who is the person that can call him to order? If he doesn't have one, the ladies, just flee.
He has not developed so well in character. If he can't have control over his hands, how else is he supposed to have control over his life? People like that are time bomb; waiting to explode and they usually self-destruct. The man isn't matured at all and that is the sad part. Age doesn't confer on anyone maturity. As you grow in age, you need to develop in character too.
A lot of people need to understand that behaviour is different from personality. Your behaviour is how you want people to see you; the impression you want people to have of you, while personality is who you really are, when no one seem to be there; the person you are deep down. We all have flaws, but we need to all work on our negative personalities to become a better person that would be admirable.
A lot of ladies often ignore the warning signs due to pressure. They feel they are getting too old. They feel the need to respond to the pressure of the society, they feel they are being left behind and no, they are not. Isn't it better to wait and be certain than to jump into marriage and regret not waiting?
...to be continued...
Thank you for your time.
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