Relationship Takes Time.
Having the right kind of partner is everyone's dream. No one wants to choose the wrong kind of partner. When you have the right kind, everyday is Christmas but when you have the wrong kind, you become a philosopher and nothing seem to be right. A lot of attitude you are not used to start spring up and you find yourself drifting from who you are to someone you are struggling to put into words. You start complaining, you start nagging, you feel the need to talk or "report" to someone, and you feel like shutting yourself against the world and being all alone. It could be tasking and draining at the same time.
Relationship takes time. Don't rush it. Just because you have seen a lot of people around you in a relationship doesn't mean you have to catch the fever. A lot of relationship you see on socials have a lot of dents and cracks, so don't feel the need to be pressured into having one or raise unrealistic expectations if/when you are in any. It is worth waiting for. There is no need to rush. You need to be prepared, you need to be ready and that doesn't mean you won't make mistakes, but it should be on your own terms rather than due to pressure.
Have you ever seen the rate at which you download a 5MB worth of video compared to a 5GB? The conditions has to be right for it to download faster and of course it would take longer for a 5GB worth of video to download, compared to 5MB worth of video. If it is worth it, you would do it, isn't it? If you believe in the beauty of your future, you would wait for it too. Relationship can make or mare your future, by your singular act of "choice".
Relationship takes a lot of time, efforts, commitments and understanding. Don't rush it. It is taking longer for you to be in a relationship because you deserve better. Nothing is wrong with you and age should have nothing to do with it. Be presentable. Carry yourself well. Always smile. Be spontaneous. Be exciting, not sluthy!. If you sell yourself cheap, you won't be able to afford it when the value should have been higher. I am not saying you should prove hard to get, no, i am saying, be clear about what you want. Everything in life is subject to time. Give it time. You want the best? It will take time. Don't rush it.
Be comfortable with yourself. You don't need someone to "complete" you, you only need someone to "complement" you. Don't mix it up. Take your time. Better late and enjoyable than never, right? Never think less of yourself. Be confident and carry yourself as such.
Thank you for your time.
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Relationship takes time. Beautiful post.
Am in perfect consonants with your view point especially the part that buttresses taking care of yourself; i mean improving yourself, growing in knowledge and wisdom for the journey ahead. Relationship takes time, moreso to say Patience is a virtue and this also is true with respect to building a successful. Relationship comes with different packages in the individual containers (humans) involved in the relationship and so require understanding which will unfold over "Time".
Thanks for this bright information especially at this time of nonchalance amongst youths of the present age. May the almighty God help us to cultivate the virtue of patience to be able to keep a healthy relationship in Jesus name.
Thanks ones again sir for sharing this @olawalium. What a good way to close my day. Cheers.
Beautiful...absolutely brilliant. Thanks a lot brother. Much appreciated.
still wise my friend😇
Charuuuuuuu!. Ignore my previous comment. I thought it was one of those spam comments. Just saw your display picture. I have missed you so much. You left me all alone for too long Charu. What's been up with me? Lot of catching up to do.
hehe no problem i cam understand, lots of catching up to do my friend
Yes beautiful, lot of catching up to do. I am so excited.
Yes beautiful, lot
Of catching up to do. I
Am so excited.
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still wise my friend😇
You can do better than this. :) thanks.