Laws Of A Relationship III
…continued… from part 1 and part 2
Never forget you are the one in it and it is a private party relationship, so you have to be totally convinced through God’s help and only then can you get through the challenges that would arise from it as time goes on.
3 Law of Competition:
It is a shame that a lot of partners compete with each other which is not expected to be. When you love each other, your spouse’s achievement should be your achievement. It should spur you on to also be better rather than think a challenge has been set. Does it matter if your spouse earns better than you do? Does it matter if she foots more bill and you are unable to, for now? It is not so much about if she is able to, but it is more about how relaxed some guys feel when the woman does this.
When you have a leadership mentality, you can still be in charge (not by tearing her down or making her live in fear) even when she foots some bills. She is supposed to be a helper and not expected to take the totality of your role. The point is, as a man you must have something you are also bringing to the table to make it easier for her, and it is not just about sex. Also, women should also understand that they are helping out of love and should not lord it over the man when they are in a position to help with the family. It is your family too after all and sacrifices are expected and we all have our parts to play. The problem is usually when the man is too relaxed and not doing anything about it.
I heard about a man whose wife bought the latest car and he felt threatened by it. He didn’t even congratulate the wife and then after two weeks, he decided to go and get the same car just to prove to the wife that he can. Something is definitely wrong with the foundation and something has gone wrong somewhere along the line. When you are competing with the one you claimed to be in love with, then there is a problem somewhere along the line. Cooperation and understanding are needed every time.
…to be continued…
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