Relationship: Signs that your spouse is cheating

Cheating, or infidelity, is one of the more challenging problems that can come up in a marriage. In most cases, even when you confront your partner with accusations of cheating, it will be denied or you will be made to feel like the "crazy one." Unless you have hard evidence or irrefutable proof, most will not admit it.

However, it is quite possible that your spouse could have these behaviors and not actually be having an affair. What may be a warning sign in one relationship may be nothing to be concerned about in another relationship.

There are many signs that are more obvious. For example, going outside to talk on the phone a lot, clearing the internet history on the computer, not being where the GPS says he or she is, and so on.

Also his behaviour may not simply mean he/she is cheating, it might be that they are tired of the relationship and wouldn't want to break your heart so they'll use their behaviour to scare you to force the break up or divorce for the married ones.

Hereby are the signs of that your spouse maybe cheating:
1: Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with a job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.
2: Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.
3: There is considerably less intimacy or connection in your relationship.
4: Your sex life is practically non-existent.
Or, there are lots of new things introduced into sex that were never before.
5: Your spouse doesn't show any jealousy about you, no matter what you say.
6:. Your spouse seems to be picking fights more often.
7: You can't get your spouse to communicate with you (stonewalling).
8:. You are aware of different scents of cologne or aftershave lotion on your spouse's clothes.
9: Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.
10: You find your partner has been lying to you about a variety of things.
11: Money becomes more of an issue between the two of you.
12: The words "I love you" are not spoken by your spouse any longer.
13: He/she doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything with you anymore.
14: You learn that you have an STD and you have not strayed.
15: When you ask for reassurance about cheating, you do not feel satisfied with the response.

There is a good chance that your intuition is sensing that unfaithfulness, whether it is physical or emotional, is possibly going on.

You should be especially concerned if your gut feelings are not normally like you. If you keep getting denial and "push-back" when trying to discuss your concerns with your partner, you may need to get professional help to sort through this. Or, it is time to get that hard evidence. With this evidence you can approach him/her but it hurts to see your spouse with another so it may lead to a divorce or breakup if you're not strong enough you may break down.

Cheating spouse may be as a result of your behaviour, if you don't do what they want they will result to outsiders to satisfy their desire.
We have to be very careful when we are in a relationship so as not to be broken at the end..

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