THIS THING CALLED LOVE! WHY NOT WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE?
I have been into this online relationship outreach for some time now. It has not been an easy task but God's grace has been there.
One of the major problems l have discovered lately is misplaced priority in relationship. Don't let your heart be toiled with, depression has led many to make inevitable mistakes in relationship. The absence of not having a choice will lead you to any available relationship that won't add value to you.
But sometimes I ask myself,
WHY NOT WAIT FOR THE RIGHT ONE
And today l couldn't help but to wish for a world class wedding and home as Prince Harry and Meghan Markle ties the knot. A wedding that almost kept me glued to CNN for the live coverage.
Sometimes desperation can lead you to make wrong choices in marriage. That your mates are getting married is not a guarantee for you to marry out of societal expectations. When you marry out of time factor you will still jump out.
Marry because you know what you want and it can work for the both of you despite your imperfections, always make sure that your spouse is ready to tolerate you no matter what happens. Though sometimes things turn against us why do I say so?
Just last night A very good friend of mine visited unlike her she was unhappy and wasn't the ever cheerful lady l use to know.
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I asked her why the sudden change of attitude, she complained bitterly how she turns down serious minded men that is ready to tie the knot with her to be with someone that never made her a priority. I was forced to open up to her, the marital crises of a newly wedded couple l was treating when the man treat the lady as a maid, not minding the sacrifice the lady made to make sure the man is happy all to no avail, I have to direct her to join one of the best marriage counselors class here in Enugu.
my advice to you all this morning is,
Don't remain where you are not needed, is better to have a broken relationship than a broken home. Life is too short to be tied with bitterness, Marry! Marry!! Marry because you know what you want and it can work for the both of you despite your imperfections. Ask questions where the relationship is aheading to if your your Partner Starts Behaving like Lagos traffic, my dear is never a crime. Because The person you assume to be your special someone might just be passing time with you.
I'm that writing freak
@luckyspark
(Relationship Expert/ life coach)
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Thanks I will do just that
Excellent advice, thank you so much for this. It is better to wait long than to marry wrong
We are advice not to rush any thing in life
Most people made ship wrecked of their marriage right from the day they accepted the proposal. The female gender tend to be much calm, careful when they approached their late 20s and eventually locked with a an unworthy man out of desperation.
This applies to both genders but rampant in female. Relationship is complicated. I don't advise people to Opt Out of a relationship all because things seems not working fine at a time. Most people left the right person all because they can't endure and persevere. As soon as we all know that we are never saints, then relationship would bettet.
Good job brother. I like this.
This is beautiful. People get married for wring reasons. Time, money, even sex. Some don't want have sex outside marriage so, they rush into it. Many don't even know who they are before getting married. That's the biggest problem. Lack of the true knowledge of who you are.
Am sorry for that your friend. But let her discover who she is. And then she will know how not to be treated. Your knowledge of your value will let you know what and what not to accept.
Marriage is not what determines a fulfilled life. Find what makes you happy. A man kr a woman helps the journey more interesting. But you deserve to be treated as the king or queen that you are.
This article was helpful bro...i must confess.. keep more of these coming. Thank you