PAYO SA MAG-ASAWA..
Pag galit asawa mo wag mong sasabayan. Kailangan isa lang ang galit, kung galit sya hayaan mo sya manahimik ka. Kapag kalmado na tska kayo mag usap at wag matutulog ng magkaaway.
Self control. Kailangan matuto kang kontrolin ang sarili mo. Hindi pwedeng pag galit ka mananakit ka, magsasalita ng masama o susugod ka.
Tanggpin mo kung ano ang asawa mo, pinili mo yan ginusto mo yan, kung anong pangit tanggapin mo, magtiis ka.
Pag may problema, pag usapan nyong dalawa, ng pamilya, hindi ng kapitbahay, ng kaibigan at lalo na wag niyo ipost sa fb kapag magkagalit kayo.
Pag galit sya, marami yang masasabing masasamang salita, wag mo dibdibin isipin mo galit lng sya, ang taong galit wala namang yang sasabihing maganda hindi ka nyan pupurihin, galit sya eh. Gawin mo pasok kanan tainga labas sa kaliwang tainga.
Laging yakapin ang asawa at mga anak, nakakagamot ng sama ng loob, nakakaluwag ng problema at sa pakiramdam.
Appreciate mo ang asawa mo, kung pogi/maganda sya sabihin mo ang pogi/ganda nya, ang bango nya, wag mo pagdudahan na kaya sya nagpapapogi/nagpapaganda dahil sa iba, mas dapat ikaw ang unang maka appreciate nun sa knya.
Pinakamahalaga ang respect at tiwala kaysa sa love. Dapat yan ang kahit anong mangyari hindi mawawala sa dalawang nagmamahalan.
Maging kaibigan ang asawa, pag may hindi pagkakasunduan, wag hayaan humantong sa sakitan at hiwalayan.
Open Communication dapat lagi kayong nag uusap, dapat binabalikan nyo ung mga nakaraan nung nagliligawan pa lang kayo, dapat nag de-date pa rin kayo, hanggat maari walang kasamang anak. Pinag uusapan ang problma hindi pinag aawayan.
In a husband wife relation conflicts, fighting, miscommunication occur many times and it is solved easily many times because their relation is based on respect, believe in each other, responsibility for each other and moreover feelings of understanding of emotion. But what happen in next some moment it is the most crueal relationship. And both husband wife cant see each other. They want divorce or separation with each other. It is very clear message that someone do evil magic on your beautiful relationship..
Marriage is a very pure relation. When two hearts marry each other, their relationship develops through love, faith and promises. But many times, we see a lot of fights between couples which becomes a major reason of disputes.
Happy PAG-IBIG MONTH to all Steemians💘
Interesting topic! Everyone fights, siblings, friends, teammate.... It's just part of human nature to have dispute. Everybody has a quirky way of reasoning and priorities. When two different kinds of people live together, they are bound to be disagreement, which is totally natural.
Some couples never find common ground, but the love is too strong and holding them together as a glue. They fight, and still find reason to keep going on together, that's the real understanding of marriage.
true :-) salamat sa pag share nito mam :-)
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