8 ways to actually make your crush like you back

in #relationship2 years ago

We should all kneel down to Hailey Baldwin, to be honest. She's had a thing for Justin Bieber since he first sang "One Time," and now she's married to him. So, how did she go from a crush to a true relationship? Here's everything you need to know to rekindle your crush's interest in you.

  1. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there.
    I understand how frightening it might be, but sometimes you just have to take the first step. You can't expect your crush to be able to read your mind and figure out that you're crushing hard. Invite them over for a movie marathon, ask them on a study date, go out of your way to talk to them. They may simply reciprocate your feelings once they notice you're interested. Everything will fall into place if they simply return your feelings. Don't wait for your crush to gaze your way for years; make things happen now!

  2. Use subtly expressive gestures.
    Even the tiniest expression can pique your crush's interest. When you pass them in the corridor, compliment their outfit or smile and say hello. Keep things flirtatious over text after school. If they play sports, it might be as simple as asking a question, sending a goofy joke or meme, or congratulating them on a recent win.

  3. Spend time with them, but not too much!
    It may seem self-evident, but try to be around your crush as much as possible without coming across as overbearing. Sit close to them at the table.

Invite them to join you at the gym or invite them to hang out with you on the weekend. The one-on-one time will allow you and your partner to interact and connect, maybe leading to mutual desire.

  1. Pay attention!
    I understand that chatting about yourself is entertaining, but your crush is unlikely to be concerned about the time your BFF fell in front of everyone at the mall (even though it was hilarious). While it's important to provide information about yourself, make sure you're also paying attention to your crush (not on your phone while they tell you about their siblings). Ask questions, stay interested, and pay attention to what they have to say. When you send your crush a text message wishing them well, they will be ecstatic.

  2. Figure out what your crush is interested in.
    Find out what matters to someone if you really want to get to know them. If you notice your crush volunteering at Planned Parenthood, inquire as to what motivates them to do so, and see if you might volunteer together. "If you persuade someone to talk about something they appreciate, it'll put that person in a good mood, and you'll become part of the good vibrations," says Jean Smith, a social psychologist. Nothing gets me more attracted to a crush than seeing them light up when they're excited about a cause or interest they're actually passionate about. Inquiring about their priorities will not only make you feel better, but it will also make them feel better.

  3. Look each other in the eyes.
    Nothing is more embarrassing than being on a date with poor eye contact. Seriously! What is my recommendation? If you're sitting across the table from someone you like, maintain eye contact throughout your chat. You don't have to gaze at them when they shove food into their mouths, but you should avoid looking down while chatting, glancing about the room, or looking at your phone. If you glance away from them, you'll come across as uninterested or as if you'd rather be somewhere else to your crush. That is something that no one desires! Furthermore, making eye contact will make you appear more confident, which will make you more appealing to them.

  4. Don't be afraid to speak up about your emotions.
    I get that playing the game appears to be "cool," and I've certainly had my fair share of instances where it has helped me get closer to my infatuation. But, to be honest, none of my previous four relationships started after I played hard to get. Instead, after one of us was honest about our feelings for each other, they blossomed into a genuine partnership. I understand that this requires courage, but if I've done it FOUR times in my life (and never regretted it), you can too.

  5. Tell them what you like about them.
    Make an effort to be sincere about this. Is it the way they go into math class and sit next to you practically every time? Is it because of the thoughts they share in English class? Is there a sport in which they excel? What about the way their hair falls? What is it about them that causes your mind to race? What distinguishes them? This can be more difficult to pinpoint than you think, but don't be scared to inform them after you've figured it out. Everyone enjoys receiving compliments, and I'm sure your admirer would be overjoyed to receive one from someone as amazing as you.

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