things women do to grab a man’s attention

Appearing mysterious
Your girl might want to add some spice and drama to your relationship, so she resorts in the best possible way by being mysterious. Suddenly she may not reveal too much about her plans to you and give vague answers to your queries. Long conversations will be a thing of the past and she may seem to be working late almost every other day. Take it easy and think of some out-of-the-world romantic things to do, which will make her come back home to you and end that game she is playing with you.

Spending time with friends
Living her own lifeSometimes your girl may appear to be unavailable to you, but this may just be because she needs some space. At times like these you may feel she is ignoring your calls pretending to be busy. And while you seem to be missing her, she may look like she is not missing you at all. It might look as if she is going all out, living her life on her own terms, enjoying with her gal pals, partying with office colleagues and leaving you wondering where it all went wrong. It might also be her way of grabbing your attention, so that you take it as a challenge to pursue her as she plays hard to get.

Speaking about good times with her ex
Most girls tend to talk highly of their exes and good times that they had in the relationship. The best thing to do is to ignore it. But if the occasional reference becomes a regular talk, put your foot down and ask her what exactly she is missing. You don’t need to show your anger, but be assertive and talk firmly about these mentions since they might harm your relationship with her. But remember don’t let this become a habit.

Trying to be too independent
While guys like it when girls depend on them, they are equally annoyed when they come to know that they are not needed around much. So once in a while when you are unable to help your girlfriend, be ready to see her turning to another man to bail her out. There are chances that she may narrate the entire incident to you in such a way that suggests that they had so much fun together. Don’t feel left out, just be there for her the next time round.

Enjoying herself on social networking sites
Putting up glam pictures on various social media sites which attract attention from other guys could make any boyfriend jealous. She could be doing these things just to find out where she stands on the desirable meter and she wants you to know about it too. It’s a hint for you to make her feel extra special, so go out of your way and indulge in some pampering. Don’t mope and sulk around at these actions, instead join the circus and support her. Like her pictures, comment on them, while also tagging her in your updates. It will only make her feel more special and help you both bond better.Open display of emotions

Laughing a lot with guy friends when in a group, playing along with their jokes and generally, being familiar with guys she is close to, is just her way of teasing you. Remember, posing for a group selfie or hugging a guy friend warmly, does not mean your girl has serious intentions about him. She may look like she is flirting with other guys, but it might be that she is just extra friendly and demonstrative in expressing her feelings.